The Truth About Energy Readings: How Your Energy Influences Results

Let's Talk About Something Most People Don't Know

Your energy and feelings about a person or situation DIRECTLY influence what comes through in a reading.

This is what most people miss when they prepare for a reading (or don't prepare at all).

Here's what I mean:

When you come to a reading already decided about someone or something, that energy creates a filter. You're broadcasting your hopes, fears, desires, and biases into the field.

And that filter affects what information comes through, and how you receive it.

How Your Energy Shows Up in a Reading

Your Hopes Color What You Hear

You ask: "Is he coming back?"

What you're really feeling:

• I hope he comes back

• I miss him

• I want this to work out

• Please tell me "yes"

That hope energy is LOUD. It's broadcasting. It's influencing the field.

Even if I tell you the truth, "He's confused, not ready, doing his own thing," you might only hear:

"So there's a chance?"

Your hope filters the message.

Your Fear Distorts the Reading

You ask: "Should I take this job?"

What you're actually feeling:

• I'm scared to make the wrong choice

• What if I fail?

• What if it's not what I think?

• I need someone to tell me it's safe

That fear energy clouds your ability to hear clearly.

Even if the guidance is: "This is aligned, but you'll need to trust yourself"—you might only hear: "It's risky."

Your fear distorts the message.

Your Attachment Blocks Clarity

You ask about a relationship, a job, a situation you're deeply attached to.

You've already:

• Decided what you want the answer to be

• Built a story in your mind

• Invested emotional energy in a specific outcome

When you're attached, you're not open.

You're looking for confirmation, not clarity.

And that closes you off to what you actually need to hear.

What Happens When You Come to a Reading Unprepared

You Only Hear What Confirms Your Bias

If you want him to come back, you'll latch onto anything that sounds like a "yes."

If you're scared of a decision, you'll hear danger even when there isn't any.

If you've already decided someone is bad for you, you won't hear the nuance.

You filter the reading through your existing beliefs.

You Miss the Real Guidance

The reading might be trying to show you:

• Where YOU'RE contributing to the problem

• What pattern YOU'RE repeating

• What YOU need to shift

But if you're too focused on "what THEY'RE doing," you'll miss it.

You Leave More Confused Than Clear

Because you weren't actually ready to RECEIVE.

You were looking for validation, not transformation.

How I Work With Your Energy

When you come to me for a reading, here's what I do:

1. I Identify YOUR Energy First

Before I even look at the situation, I tune into YOU:

• What are you projecting?

• What do you WANT to be true?

• What are you afraid of?

• Where are you emotionally attached?

I need to see YOUR filter so I can help you see past it.

2. I Separate YOUR Energy from THE SITUATION

Once I understand your energy, I can look at what's actually happening:

• What's the other person's true energy/intention?

• What's the real dynamic at play?

• Where's the truth vs where's your fear/hope coloring things?

This is where clarity starts to emerge.

3. I Show You What YOU'RE Contributing

This is the part most people don't want to hear, but it's the most important:

• How is YOUR energy affecting the situation?

• What pattern are YOU repeating?

• Where are YOU giving your power away?

• What do YOU need to shift?

  
  

You can't change other people. But you can change YOUR energy—and that changes everything.

4. I Give You the Truth (Even When It's Hard)

I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear.

I'm here to show you:

• What's actually happening

• What's for your highest good

• Where you're headed if you continue on this path

• What opens up if you shift

Sometimes that's uncomfortable.

Sometimes it challenges what you believe.

But that's the work.

Real Examples of How Client Energy Influences Readings

Example 1: The Relationship Question

Client asks: "Will he reach out?"

What I sense in their energy:

• Desperation

• Checking their phone constantly

• Replaying past conversations

• Attached to the outcome

The truth of the situation: He's moving on. He's not thinking about reaching out. He's focused elsewhere.

What the client NEEDS to hear: "You're stuck in waiting mode, and it's blocking your power. The real question isn't 'will he reach out'—it's 'why are you giving someone who's not showing up this much space in your energy?'

Yes, I understand the curiosity. I have been there. But, what does that curiosity really serve? Does it add value?

Shift YOUR focus, and watch what opens up."

If I just read their energy without discernment: "I see him thinking about you... there's potential..." (which feeds the attachment and keeps them stuck)

Example 2: The Career Question

Client asks: "Is this the right opportunity?"

What I sense in their energy:

• Fear of making the wrong choice

• Comparing to other options

• Seeking external validation

• Not trusting themselves

The truth of the situation: The opportunity is aligned. But their fear is louder than their knowing.

What the client NEEDS to hear: "The opportunity is solid. But your fear is blocking your ability to see that clearly. You're looking for someone to TELL you it's right because you don't trust your own knowing. That's the real issue. Work on that, and the decision becomes obvious."

If I just read their fear: "I sense hesitation... maybe wait... there could be something better..." (which keeps them stuck in indecision)

How to Prepare for a Reading (So You Actually Receive)

If you want to get the most out of a reading, here's how to prepare:

Before the Reading:

1. Get Honest With Yourself

• What do I WANT the answer to be?

• What am I afraid of hearing?

• Am I looking for validation or clarity?

• Am I ready for truth, even if it challenges me?

2. Release Attachment to a Specific Outcome

The more attached you are, the less you'll hear.

Try to come in with:

• Openness

• Curiosity

• Willingness to see things differently

3. Write Down Your Questions—Then Ask WHY You're Asking

Don't just ask surface questions.

Go deeper:

• "Is he coming back?" → WHY do I want him back? What am I actually seeking?

• "Should I take this job?" → WHY am I second-guessing myself? What's the real fear?

The deeper question often reveals the real issue.

During the Reading:

1. Stay Open

Even if what I'm saying doesn't match what you want to hear... stay with it.

Sit with the discomfort.

There's wisdom in what challenges you.

2. Ask Follow-Up Questions

If something doesn't land, ask:

• "Can you explain that more?"

• "What do you mean by that?"

• "How does this relate to [specific situation]?"

Engage with the process.

3. Take Notes

You'll want to remember the specifics later.

And sometimes things make more sense after you've had time to process.

After the Reading:

1. Sit With What Came Through

Don't immediately react or make decisions.

Let it integrate.

2. Notice What Triggered You

If something I said made you defensive or emotional... that's usually where the gold is.

The resistance points to the pattern that needs your attention.

3. Take Aligned Action

Readings aren't just for information... they're for transformation.

What's one thing you can shift based on what came through?

The Bottom Line

Your energy matters.

The more aware you are of your own biases, attachments, and fears—the more clearly you'll receive guidance.

I can read the energy. I can show you the truth. I can offer perspective.

But YOU have to be willing to:

• See your own role

• Challenge your assumptions

• Release attachment to outcomes

• Trust what serves your highest good (even if it's not what you wanted)

That's when readings become transformational.

Ready for Real Clarity?

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The reading you receive is only as clear as the energy you bring.

Come ready. Come open. Come willing to see the truth.

I'll meet you there 💜🔮

— Amethyst