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Rebel Searching For A Cause: Achieving Inner Peace Through Life Organization and Discipline

Routine, Daily habits, Mindset, Self-care, #routine, #consistency, #empowerment, #motivation, #habits,


Have you ever found yourself feeling like your own worst enemy? You know what you want to achieve, and you have all the best intentions, but somehow you keep getting in your own way. Maybe you procrastinate, doubt yourself, or get easily overwhelmed. It's frustrating and disheartening, but the truth is, you're not alone. We all struggle with self-limiting behaviors from time to time, and it can be tough to break free from these patterns. But the good news is, it's absolutely possible - and I'm here to help you discover how.


Let's get down to business! But before we do, I want to remind you that I hear you - it's not easy to face roadblocks on the journey to growth. It's important to recognize that your feelings are valid, and that it's okay to struggle sometimes. Whatever the underlying issue is that's holding you back from being accountable and committed to your growth, it won't change overnight. But don't worry, you've got this! Your habits became patterns because you practiced them consistently, so changing them will take effort and awareness on your part. Just remember that small steps forward can add up to big changes over time, so keep at it and stay positive. You have the power to overcome your challenges and achieve your goals.


It's not uncommon for individuals who have experienced loss, trauma, childhood trauma, breakups, or major transitions to struggle with discipline and organization. This may be because these experiences can disrupt our sense of safety and stability, leading us to feel a sense of disconnection or disorientation. As a result, we may rebel against the idea of being held accountable to routine and structure, feeling that it represents a loss of control or autonomy.

However, it's important to recognize that discipline and organization can actually be powerful tools for healing and growth. By establishing routines and creating structure in our lives, we can create a sense of stability and predictability that can be especially valuable in times of transition or uncertainty. This can help us feel more grounded and connected to ourselves, even in the face of challenging circumstances.

It's also worth noting that discipline and organization don't have to feel restrictive or oppressive. By approaching them with a mindset of self-compassion and flexibility, we can create routines that feel empowering and sustainable. This might mean starting small and gradually building up to more challenging routines, or allowing ourselves room for spontaneity and creativity within our schedules.

Ultimately, it's up to each individual to find the approach to discipline and organization that feels most supportive and empowering for them. This may involve working with a therapist or coach to explore any underlying patterns or beliefs that may be holding us back, and developing a personalized plan for building healthy routines and habits over time. With time and effort, it is possible to reconnect with the benefits of discipline and organization, even in the aftermath of loss, trauma, or major life changes.

Here are some suggestions for approaching routine and consistency in a way that feels empowering and fulfilling rather than limiting:

  1. Focus on your "why": Start by clarifying your reasons for establishing a routine or being consistent in a particular area of your life. What are your goals? How will this routine help you achieve them? Keeping your "why" in mind can help you stay motivated and engaged, even when the routine feels challenging.

  2. Embrace flexibility: While routines are valuable for creating structure and predictability in our lives, it's important to allow room for flexibility and spontaneity. Rather than rigidly adhering to a schedule or routine, think of it as a framework that you can adapt and adjust as needed. This will help prevent feelings of boredom or confinement.

  3. Find joy in the process: Instead of focusing solely on the end result, try to find joy and fulfillment in the process of establishing and maintaining your routine. This might mean finding creative ways to make your routine more enjoyable, such as adding music or setting aside time for self-care. Remember that consistency is a practice, and it takes time and effort to build habits that stick.

  4. Practice gratitude: Gratitude is a powerful tool for shifting our mindset and cultivating a more positive outlook on life. Take time each day to reflect on what you're grateful for, and try to find ways to infuse your routine with a sense of appreciation and gratitude. This can help you stay motivated and connected to your goals.

  5. Lean on your spiritual practice: If you have a spiritual practice, use it as a tool for finding meaning and purpose in your routine. Whether it's meditation, prayer, or simply taking a few moments to reflect, your spiritual practice can help ground you and give you the strength and resilience to stick with your routine over the long term.

Remember that routine and consistency don't have to feel like prison. By approaching them with a positive mindset, embracing flexibility, finding joy in the process, practicing gratitude, and leaning on your spiritual practice, you can create a routine that feels empowering, fulfilling, and sustainable.


Comment and share if this info has helped you in anyway. I would love to hear from you!


If you're still struggling to stay accountable and committed to your growth, I'm here to offer guidance and support. Let's work together to identify the root of the issue and create a plan to help you overcome it. Feel free to book a consultation.




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